by James Richards, Our Guest Contributor about “Money Matters and Family”
A lot of great parenting moments come when you least expect them. One morning, around 5 am, I was about ¼ awake, unshaven, in my robe, sitting in an armchair waiting for my first sip of coffee to make its way to my brain. I was not what you might call “game ready”.
Ben, age 6 comes out of his bedroom, jumps in my lap and says “Dad, did you used to smoke? How come you don’t anymore?” I did not see that coming! In the end, adrenaline did its magic and I managed to come up with a coherent answer, but that wasn’t really how I envisioned our first conversation about smoking!
Kids ask for your wisdom at the moment they want it. They do not give you a memo a week in advance saying please prepare for this topic. You just have to be ready when they ask. So how can you possibly be ready all the time?
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